What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 02:03
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
What smell will you never forget?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Does believing in God and Satan cause schizophrenia?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
How can I decorate my house creatively?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Why are some people afraid of monsters?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
If you win, what will you make them do?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
29- How superstitious are you?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
*** Questions About Me ***
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
Apple’s Music app in iOS 26 gains my favorite feature from the Mac - 9to5Mac
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
If babies could write, what questions would they ask on Quora?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
52~ What are your hobbies?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Family Relation Age Play
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
What is your favorite position? Why?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Nothing too Serious
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
How old are you? Male or Female?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Any that are a turn off?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
If yes, what?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
The Ice Breaker Questions
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Please share Did you stop?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Would you read them together?
39~ What are your love languages?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
*** Random Questions ***
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?